Aww, thank you. I don't know you and you don't know me, which makes it better, but that means a lot to me. You sound like an awesome man/husband/father and give great advice on this forum (I've noticed). Yeah, my husband thinks it's sexy, too. I'm sure all men do? Haha. Yeah, I've never gone outside of fantasizing. Haven't kissed another man in almost 25 years. Wow. It's all in my head nice and safe, right? My husband is a very jealous man and doesn't think he deserves me and believes there's some guy out there waiting to steal me away. He tells me all the time how he feels it in his bones, a deep feeling that he can't shake, and I can't reassure him about. I made him talk to a therapist (I talk about this in the how many times a year thread) because I was leaving him in January. I couldn't take the jealousy and possessiveness anymore. He's trying but still fights his demons, doesn't feel good enough for me, thinks I'm going to hit it big with my books and move on. He's a surgeon, by the way, and doesn't feel he's good enough for me. His therapist tells him to stop thinking like that or I will leave. She was on my side most of the part. I went once and gave my side, and she said she wished she could bottle what we have and give it to her other married patients, but that he does need to work on that. I'm a strong woman, always have been, and would have been fine if he chose not to get the help. That scares him. I believe things happen for a reason, people come into our lives for a reason (like that woman in the OP's post). We're all on a journey and no room for judgment. I noticed you're from Chicago. I was born and raised in in Chicago and now live in the suburbs. Interesting.
Thanks again and hope to talk to you again soon sometime.
