RhythmSpring
Bluelighter
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- Jun 19, 2008
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I seem to have made a few "friends" that I wish to longer spend time with. They're not terrible people, they just kind of suck my energy. But they keep asking to hang out or acting as if I'm still in like with them. One of them I think has a crush on me, but hasn't told me outright.
I don't want to be with these people, but I have a hard time saying "no" to people. Usually because, when I do, it ends up sounding harsh and they feel "bummed out."
Is there any way I can tactfully, gently tell them to go make other friends so I can erm, be with my real friends? I don't want to "ghost" them, either.
Is this unreasonable? Am I being an elitist twat?
I don't want to be with these people, but I have a hard time saying "no" to people. Usually because, when I do, it ends up sounding harsh and they feel "bummed out."
Is there any way I can tactfully, gently tell them to go make other friends so I can erm, be with my real friends? I don't want to "ghost" them, either.
Is this unreasonable? Am I being an elitist twat?