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how to send gift card via sms

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soundsystem00

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so i want to surprise this chick i have been talking to on Vday by sending her an SMS that says "click here" and she gets a small gift card. something basic. We have been talking for about a month and we like each other, but have yet to hang out. we are in the same circle of friends and have even lived in the same apartments before. i really like her, but i want to be careful not to creep her out. i dont want to do anything extravagant that would make her feel weird.

i just want to send her a nice text message with a gift card to somewhere like bath and body works or amazon. everything i have found requires an email and I do not know her email, and dont really want to ask her. im kind of to a point now where if I cant send it via sms im not going to send anything at all.

okay thanks
 
sms is so unromantic. write a thoughtful card abd give it to her. in person.

alasdair
 
alasdairm said:
sms is so unromantic. write a thoughtful card abd give it to her. in person.

alasdair
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I know, I know, BUT we have yet to meet. We know all the same people, and she is the one who engaged with me. We've been talking a lot but have not hung out officially yet. I was thinking it may be too soon to do anything. And I have something I can give her when/if I see her. I may abort mission for now. I just didn't want her to have to be alone on Vday and at least get a little something.
 
you've not met her? in that case, i think giving her a valentine gift is a little creepy.

why not start by calling her and asking her out?

alasdair
 
I missed so many opportunities with girls from being too slow or being afraid of being rejected, or seeing rejection as something which affirmed there was something wrong with me. If there's something the now me would tell the old me, it's don't beat around the bush. Ask the girl if she'd like to go for a drink or coffee. Do it before someone else does. If she rejects you, don't be humiliated. Take it on the chin as being part of life and move on. We all have to face rejection as a fact of life. Don't care what others think. It makes you a better person trying but not succeeding, than not trying at all.

Also, don't get infatuated by this girl before you know her properly and are dating for a little while. She's a human being just like any other and has her faults as much as her pluses. I'm guessing you're only seeing her pluses right now, which is partly why you're afraid to make a move and see Valentine's day as an opportunity to make a subtle move. It may or may not be a good idea but it's certainly not as good as being direct. If you ask her out and she says yes, you can suggest Valentine's day as a day for the date, in which case you can take something with you and say 'since it's valentine's day...'. And be as confident in your own self as possible. Make sure you see your pluses.
 
soundsystem00 said:
so i want to surprise this chick i have been talking to on Vday by sending her an SMS that says "click here" and she gets a small gift card. something basic. We have been talking for about a month and we like each other, but have yet to hang out. we are in the same circle of friends and have even lived in the same apartments before. i really like her, but i want to be careful not to creep her out. i dont want to do anything extravagant that would make her feel weird.

i just want to send her a nice text message with a gift card to somewhere like bath and body works or amazon. everything i have found requires an email and I do not know her email, and dont really want to ask her. im kind of to a point now where if I cant send it via sms im not going to send anything at all.

okay thanks
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You have not gone out? Whos doing all the texting calling is it you or her? dont do this not so cute thing...yet
 
She has asked me out twice and both times I wa busy. She's just started back school so now she's busy too. She texts me out of nowhere sometimes telling me to have a great day and complimenting me. When I did that for her she said it was such a nice thing to

wake up to. In my opinion, VDay is a good opportunity to give her something small to show I like her. After thinking about it I decided I am going to do it. She gave me her email no problem and said she had a really bad day so at the very least I can cheer her up. There are a few other girls that I like, so it definitely won't be heart shattering if she gets wielded out or rejects me. At least I'll be able to make someone feel better on vday and I'll feel better too having done it.
 
wow- you turned her down twice. when she asked you out?

people in college and school manage to date.

people with full time jobs and school on the side manage to date.

i'm sorry but if you are into someone you find time. you were so busy for the entire number of hours each week that you could not have met for a 2 hour date? come on is this for real? i'm not buying it- you were not that interested

you have lots of girls you fancy and this one you turned down twice and you want to text her money. smh
 
nah, I really am interested. the first time she invited me, it was the same night with an hour notice, and i was over 2 hours away at a casino. the second time, she invited me to hang out after i worked 12 hours and i went home and was waiting on her text and i passed out. I really do want to see her. You are right though, she could find time to hang out if she wanted to. she is a bit distant, so probably isnt all that interested.
 
soundsystem00 said:
She has asked me out twice and both times I wa busy. She's just started back school so now she's busy too. She texts me out of nowhere sometimes telling me to have a great day and complimenting me. When I did that for her she said it was such a nice thing to

wake up to. In my opinion, VDay is a good opportunity to give her something small to show I like her. After thinking about it I decided I am going to do it. She gave me her email no problem and said she had a really bad day so at the very least I can cheer her up. There are a few other girls that I like, so it definitely won't be heart shattering if she gets wielded out or rejects me. At least I'll be able to make someone feel better on vday and I'll feel better too having done it.
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I would do something different. Say awwww you've had a bad time let's go out for a drink or grab a bottle of wine and come over let's talk over cooking a meal.

I think doing this SMS approach is kinda boring and got May fall into aww his so cute male girlfriend category. Instead use the opportunity to meet her. Listen to her don't advise agree with everything she's saying make her laugh. YouTube Corey Wayne you'll understand why I'm saying this after.
 
so she is being ultra specific when asking you out. which is either controlling or just a bit stupid

the obvious thing is to ask her out and if she is not available move on.

if she says she wants to go out leave it open as in "hey you wanna go out sometime? yeah, when are you free?" not "lets go out saturday! i'm not free"
 
she got it. it was the day after V-day because the stupid site took 48 hours to process. They sent a second one though because of that, which was cool. she sent me a text saying "omg thank you so much, that was so sweet!" and all that jazz. Then she made time to meet up later that night and we had a great time. It definitely made a difference. Thanks for nothing guys. I should moderate this page. I have more game than all of you. lol jk.
 
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