ScroogeMcDuck57
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That's really great you can explain that so succinctly. Everything you were saying sounded healthy and insightful until you mentioned your bf.
He's just substituting one drug for another. He's going to go back on heroin it's just a matter of time. I'm sure he's nice to you sometimes, but ultimately he's suffering from a severe illness and dragging you down. Think of all the things that go along with drugs: shitty people, breaking the law, blowing lots of money, etcetera). He's endangering you with your tacit approval. Maybe he's a good dude, but he's using to as a means to enable his addiction. IMO.
Idk your living situation, but if I was you I'd set some boundries like: i cannot have drugs in my living space. If you continue to use drugs in this house I am going to move out.
Enabling your bf isn't helping him or you. You deserve to live in a safe place and be in a relationship with someone life-giving. That's just me. God love you, do what you want.
He's just substituting one drug for another. He's going to go back on heroin it's just a matter of time. I'm sure he's nice to you sometimes, but ultimately he's suffering from a severe illness and dragging you down. Think of all the things that go along with drugs: shitty people, breaking the law, blowing lots of money, etcetera). He's endangering you with your tacit approval. Maybe he's a good dude, but he's using to as a means to enable his addiction. IMO.
Idk your living situation, but if I was you I'd set some boundries like: i cannot have drugs in my living space. If you continue to use drugs in this house I am going to move out.
Enabling your bf isn't helping him or you. You deserve to live in a safe place and be in a relationship with someone life-giving. That's just me. God love you, do what you want.