last month i was feeling iffy about my boyfriend and our relationship, weve been together for over a year now. we've worked through things and things are fine now. but aside from that, i had also switched my birth control pills to a generic brand because the pharmacist said it would be cheaper, and i found that it made me feel off and not horny at all, which is really unusual. i switched back to alesse and i feel normal again. like at least i feel like having sex. but lately ive been finding that it's been a little harder to have an orgasm, or an intense orgasm. ive been finding it hard to fantasize or find porn that i like. im usually picky with porn but now its to the point where trying to find the right porn becomes time consuming lol. i'm really into like d/s stuff, im pretty submissive. i usually rely on d/s fantasies when i masturbate or have sex. but when i go on pornhub or something like that i can barely get myself turned on, or it takes a lot longer and i dont know how or why ive become suddenly bored of porn. maybe its because i know a lot of the girls are faking it? im also really into like dirty talking but its hard to find videos like that. can anyone help me find better porn that fits my criteria? something more real esp in bdsm or d/s? and why am i having a mind block when it comes to fantasizing? i keep drawing a blank and it's not like i dont wanna fuck