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Ever Dated Someone with a Missing Limb or in a Wheelchair or Any Issue?

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stolemyheart87

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Well would you or have you? I've gone out on a date with a little person, tried dating other guys, one turned out to be disabled in a wheelchair, and another guy had a missing hand sort of, his left hand was there but he only had his thumb, and the rest of his fingers weren't there. Other guys have self esteem issues, or mental issues, etc. Just why do these guys keep coming attracted to me, I don't know if I should give anymore of these guy a chance or just cut them off. But then again that isn't accepting the person for who they are. So what would you do? Honestly deep down would you date someone in one of these conditions?
 
I haven't had the opportunity to, but if I liked them, yes I would. Try and focus on what they have, not what they don't have.
 
Disabilities do not make the person.

In the the grand scheme of things, my own physical disabilities can be seen as small, however to a potential partner they can be seen as a huge roadblock. Or maybe that's just how I believe that people will see me, as that is what has prevented me from getting out and about the last year.

I guess my my point is, that unless you have a conversation about it, you will never know what limitations there are, if any at all!
 
But none of you, have answered my question, would you honestly go out with someone in a condition such as something like this? Most people would not, hands down and you know this.
 
I'm one of those gimpy people like you dated. My arm was broken when I was a baby, and I never received medical treatment until after it was too late. It never healed correctly, and I only have partial use of it.

As for a friend, I don't care what they look like. No arms, no legs, no face, it doesn't matter. I've had several friends who had visible disabilities. DAting is different. No. There has to be a physical attraction for a certain physiological response to happen, and a handful of Viagra will not change that. I'm only atracted to the Platonic Ideal. Unless she has the body of the Venus de Milo and a face to go with it, it's not going to work.
 
stolemyheart87 said:
But none of you, have answered my question, would you honestly go out with someone in a condition such as something like this? Most people would not, hands down and you know this.
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seeing as you started the thread to spread discriminatory attitudes that you yourself hold in the hope others would agree with you as this statement i quote here makes very clear i'm gonna close it
 
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