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Sex Do you also feel so down after masturbation and energized if you dont do it ?

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Yo I dont masturbate so often and I dont feel everytime down or moody after orgasm but if I would masturbate every day I would be very depressed.
Sometimes Im very horny and masturbate 3 times a day and then I feel quite low.

I dont believe in no fap or shit but I feel more energized when I dont masturbate for lets say 3-5days.

And I quite like the hornyness which builds up after couple of orgasm-free days.

This hornyness makes me flirting with women or men and I like this sexual tension.
 
yes excessive fapping demolishes a person, males especially, in many ways. Abstaining from it or just reducing it to a frequence of mere physiological need is the best solution, I believe that never in any age males became addicted to fapping like in this era. better cut it down significantly.
 
Orgasm releases endorphins so you should feel good afterwards. There's also no such thing as masturbation somehow draining your life force or whatever. Your reaction makes no sense physiologically so the issue must be psychological.

Do you have any hang - ups where you think you shouldn't be doing it? Or think you shouldn't be doing it often? Basically libido differs wildly between individuals. If you feel the urge 3 times a day doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Masturbation becomes excessive / pathological if you do it compulsively and neglect other areas of your life over it, but this doesn't seem to be the case with you. And yes deliberately not doing it for a bit will heighten the enjoyment when you do do it, that's obvious. Like food will be extra satisfying if you've fasted a few days.
But really, it sounds like the issue is in your head.
 
I don't masturbate cos I have low testosterone...I'm on testosterone therapy but it's not really working. I get horny if I watch videos or pics but if I don't then I'm not horny if that makes sense
 
Specified said:
I don't masturbate cos I have low testosterone...I'm on testosterone therapy but it's not really working. I get horny if I watch videos or pics but if I don't then I'm not horny if that makes sense
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how did you find out you have low testosterone? what symptoms brought you to check it?
 
The UltimateFixx said:
If you feel the urge 3 times a day doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.
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that would be an abnormal urge, there is nothing in life, nature or physiologically that brings up such a urge apart from the sexualized and porn-addicted present society.
 
wirkdy said:
how did you find out you have low testosterone? what symptoms brought you to check it?
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My dr ordered a blood test and I think testosterone was to be tested or else they wouldn't have found out. Anyway they did a test and they found it low
 
Ejaculation can cause fatigue in some men. Others not. It isn’t a problem if it fatigues you, nor does it mean it fatigues everyone.

Personally any sexual activity (even without ejaculation) makes me tired after a while, for 20-30 minutes if I let myself drowse off, but then I don’t notice any difference the rest of the day. I sometimes éjaculate multiple times a day and feel great. I never feel depressed. Sometimes after sex marathons the final ejaculation leaves me shaky and nauseated for a couple hours, but no regrets there!

I regularly practice semen retention because it makes me especially horny around the 3-5 day mark. But during that time I still have sex, I still masturbate, and I have loads of non-ejaculatory orgasms (prostate orgasms, testicular orgasms, orgasms from other body parts, pain orgasms, and other erotico-esoterica). I just don’t ejaculate at the end.

In any case those who claim ejaculation saps our life force or whatever, y’all should realize that that is YOUR view of YOUR psychology and physiology, and it doesn’t apply to everyone.
 
I rarely feel down after masturbation. I stay hard and go again. This has been going on for 20 years or more.
 
TheUltimateFixx said:
Orgasm releases endorphins so you should feel good afterwards. There's also no such thing as masturbation somehow draining your life force or whatever. Your reaction makes no sense physiologically so the issue must be psychological.

Do you have any hang - ups where you think you shouldn't be doing it? Or think you shouldn't be doing it often? Basically libido differs wildly between individuals. If you feel the urge 3 times a day doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Masturbation becomes excessive / pathological if you do it compulsively and neglect other areas of your life over it, but this doesn't seem to be the case with you. And yes deliberately not doing it for a bit will heighten the enjoyment when you do do it, that's obvious. Like food will be extra satisfying if you've fasted a few days.
But really, it sounds like the issue is in your head.
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Male orgasm spikes Prolactin, which in turn lowers Dopamine.
 
I noticed after orgasm, Im thinking more about things.
For example future things, or i start to clean my room or go jogging.
Well.
Sometime I also feel like kinda lonely and thinking man if you are masturbate you wont have sex with real people.
But sometimes I also feel relieved and good because sometimes Im so horny and have to cum.
 
sleep routine thats all.

hollow release of energy that saves me taking drugs.

the idea of spilling seed and martial arts is a load of crock.

another wives tale probably as the girls would promise them selves to young warriors if they came home successful.

good motivation to go and get your self killed if your desperate.
 
The only time I really feel in a down mood or bad about myself after masturbating is after a stimulant-induced masturbatathon. I feel like masturbation is healthy up to a point, but no one needs to masturbate for 12-48 hours straight.

Lately I've been feeling okay after I masturbate. I would say orgasm but I haven't had sex since the Covid pandemic started. I was put onto Suboxone treatment and that stuff very quickly made me lose any interest in sex, and made it hard to find joy in most things. I've started to taper and jave dropped
 
I think it's pretty normal for a guy to feel a bit zonked after cumming, considering the sudden release of prolactin, oxytocin etc. Sometimes it can make me feel a bit 'empty'/emotionally drained for a few hours? Other times I feel unusually good, and others no real change at all. Often it depends how I'm feeling more generally I think - when I'm highly stressed, for example, I get extremely horny: I'll cum and feel energised afterwards, and want to rinse repeat shortly later.
 
Sometimes I feel embarrassed and awkward afterwards. I don't know if it's an old Christian guilt thing or what.
 
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