Darth Dude
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Jul 20, 2019
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I think my wife may have cheated or is cheating on me.
First, some background. She's been going through some things health wise- menopause, thyroid issues, etc. Nothing major, but it had a diminishing effect on her sex drive. We went from having sex 2-3 times a week to once every other month. She always assured me that it was her body, etc. and not me.
Then, a couple of weeks ago she wanted to meet an online male friend for lunch somewhere. It was only a couple hour drive and she invited me to come along. I had a deadline at work to meet, so I declined the offer, but told her to go and enjoy lunch. We've been married 23 years in a totally monogamous relationship and I trust her completely.
She drops by my office on her way to meet this guy. She is dressed to the nines. Heels, makeup, jewelry. She doesn't dress up that much for me on date nights unless it's an anniversary dinner, but I chalked it up to her wanting to make a good first impression.
When she came home she was horny af. We've had sex nearly every night since then, and she's meeting him again next week. I've always told her if she wants an open marriage I'm good with it, but let me know. The thought of her with another guy turns me on, but the thought of her doing it behind my back worries me. What do I do?
First, some background. She's been going through some things health wise- menopause, thyroid issues, etc. Nothing major, but it had a diminishing effect on her sex drive. We went from having sex 2-3 times a week to once every other month. She always assured me that it was her body, etc. and not me.
Then, a couple of weeks ago she wanted to meet an online male friend for lunch somewhere. It was only a couple hour drive and she invited me to come along. I had a deadline at work to meet, so I declined the offer, but told her to go and enjoy lunch. We've been married 23 years in a totally monogamous relationship and I trust her completely.
She drops by my office on her way to meet this guy. She is dressed to the nines. Heels, makeup, jewelry. She doesn't dress up that much for me on date nights unless it's an anniversary dinner, but I chalked it up to her wanting to make a good first impression.
When she came home she was horny af. We've had sex nearly every night since then, and she's meeting him again next week. I've always told her if she wants an open marriage I'm good with it, but let me know. The thought of her with another guy turns me on, but the thought of her doing it behind my back worries me. What do I do?