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Confused on Sexuality

OhOkay

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So, I am trying to figure out if I'm bisexual or not.I think I might be, or there is another word for it that I just don't know. I find guys sexually attractive (I'm a girl) and I also find girls sexually attractive.
I watch porn of women but at the thought of actually having sex with a woman makes me generally uncomfortable. I would call myself bicurious but something about saying that makes me feel like I'm lying to myself and everyone else. I find women attractive, really beautiful and incredibly sexy and as I said I watch porn of them but something doesn't feel right if I actually imagine myself with the women. I'm a little shy and I am near to a panic attack just writing this because I'm not sure if this is the kind of thing posted here but I thought I matter as well ask. Sorry for the inconvenience if this isn't what this chat is for.:(
 
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Have you tried an experience with a female? You are not alone and nothing to be ashamed of. If you find other women sexy, then I would say you are bisexual. Theres a difference between saying oh that woman is beautiful and damn shes so hot. Ya know? It seems you want to, but are nervous about giving it a go. Worst comes to worst you don't enjoy it and you have your answer. If you do enjoy it you have your answer. I say go for it...espeicially if ya have a girl on your mind. Goodluck!
 
I'm male and I find it to be fun to pretend to be gay in front of my friends when drunk but I jack off to lesbian porn only and the thought of seeing guys dicks turns me off. I still question myself, there was one instance when I wanted to kiss a friend for no reason but I was coming off drugs so blame it on that. However I don't find guys attractive.
 
I don't think it's any big deal to be attracted to women as well as men. One time me and my late husband had a threesome with this girl, I thought she was hot, and I really enjoyed it. Plus my husband really enjoyed watching us, lol. Although I still find certain women attractive, I haven't been with one since that one time, and I'm not sure I could, one on one. As far as a relationship goes, I would only want to be with a man, but if I see an attractive woman, I have no problem thinking, "Damn, she's pretty hot." Just not a big deal for me.
 
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