Advice "By dawn he had shot his load thricefold.."

[Ismene2]

When you were young and your heart was an open book was sex a big deal? Was it like a .65 cannon going off? Did you have to check the ceiling for "surfaces to wipe down"?

And now its about as explosive as squeezing a toothpaste can you cope with the disappointment as you age?

Thanking you.

(My alternate post title was going to be ("He was always up at the crack of Dawn..")

 

[CFC]

Pretty sure my sex drive peaked at about 14. Even when I succumbed to a phase of methsex in my 30s I don't think it exceeded that high point. I wouldn't say things have changed greatly since I went off the boil at the end of puberty though - it's been pretty much consistent in the decades since. I don't seem to age as much as the people around me, at least not yet, so no crippling sense of disappointment yet. I'm sure it'll catch up with me at some point.