You need to sit down and have a serious chat with him.
I don't know what live links is but I'm assuming that it's a sexual thing.
Tell this dude that you're far from happy about what he's doing. Lay it on the line and explain how you're feeling. It's not fair on you to put up with this behaviour.
Try and plan a nice, romantic & sexual night with him and have some quality time together for you both!