Anyone else had sex on MDMA w/ significant other and regular sex is just never....

[cooldude9111]

Anyone else had sex on MDMA w/ significant other and regular (sober) sex is just never the same?

Me and me girl friend used to have sex 4-5 times a week... and then after having MDMA sex, I have lost interest... Not so much her, but it's more of me.... I only want to have sex about once every 2 weeks now... Any way to explain that?

 

[cyberius]

Anyone else had sex on MDMA w/ significant other and regular (sober) sex is just never the same?

Me and me girl friend used to have sex 4-5 times a week... and then after having MDMA sex, I have lost interest... Not so much her, but it's more of me.... I only want to have sex about once every 2 weeks now... Any way to explain that?

I also had this issue. MDMA curbed most of my sexual desires for a couple weeks.

 

[Dawglaw]

I had always heard that if you have sex on MDMA, normal sex will never be the same.

Then I tried it. While sex was great on MDMA it did not "ruin" normal sex. My sex drive has remained constant and the only thing that seems to affect it is my interest in my partner or temporary outside influences (stress, work, etc.).

 

[severely etarded]

By the sounds of it you've fallen into a routine in the bedroom. Same thing every time. Human beings tend to get bored of the same old routine you might want to switch it up a little bit. Try something new, exciting, kinky etc. I can send this thread to SL&R if you'd like you might get better answers there.

 

[infectedmushroom]

Random bit of "to-much-information" but my partner seemed to be able to fit more of me down her throat quite effortlessly and comfortably when she was on M. I'm sure there's a trip report on erowid documenting this exact phenomenon, I just cbf finding it though atm.

If you're a lady (or someone who gives oral sex) being on M will likely impress your partner when you go down on them.

I'm not to experienced in this field but what I just said is my lil contribution.

As far as reducing libido...not really. I think of sex less in the days following a good roll though but it returns.

 

[Yellow-Pudding]

yeah regular sex isn't just as good as on mdma

 

[TheMedic]

By the sounds of it you've fallen into a routine in the bedroom. Same thing every time. Human beings tend to get bored of the same old routine you might want to switch it up a little bit. Try something new, exciting, kinky etc. I can send this thread to SL&R if you'd like you might get better answers there.

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also libido/testosterone levels vary week by week.

Some weeks sex will be a priority while some weeks you wont feel like doing it at all.

Perhaps stress, occupation, fatigue might also impact your sex drive.

I wouldnt worry about it, give yourself a couple of weeks and see how it goes

 

[steingalkrs]

I had always heard that if you have sex on MDMA, normal sex will never be the same.

Then I tried it. While sex was great on MDMA it did not "ruin" normal sex. My sex drive has remained constant and the only thing that seems to affect it is my interest in my partner or temporary outside influences (stress, work, etc.).

Sounds about right. You learn that great sex - is amazing on MDMA. It doesnt ruing anything in my opinion, only problem could be if you go bananas under influence and from there on cant face your partner sober... thats another story, get some a-pvp, coke or something then to "even the playingfield" and dont go porndaddy next time :D I miss sex on MDMA, I better get some is what Im thinking!

If you're a lady (or someone who gives oral sex) being on M will likely impress your partner when you go down on them.

Well that could be a heads up for someone sucking at eating pussy, don't do the first eating with MDMA if this is what you think she will remember you for as certainly you cannot perform like this. We are after all talking of a mode where touching someone with a finger, can feel like full penetration... So - naturally MDMA sex is MDMAzing!

yeah regular sex isn't just as good as on mdma

Haha, MDMAzing!

 

[MagickalKat777]

OMG this conversation... LMAO!

Without divulging too much... Going down on your partner while rolling is a bad idea unless you always plan to roll together when you have sex.

 

[cyberius]

OMG this conversation... LMAO!

Without divulging too much... Going down on your partner while rolling is a bad idea unless you always plan to roll together when you have sex.

Sounds about right.

Oral sex becomes 1000000x more intense giving or receiving on e.

 

[DOB]

no man with normal T levels would miss a single chance to fuck his fit GF

 

[RedLeader]

I think it's more likely that having (sober) sex in days/weeks following MDMA will remind you of the drug itself, and it will make you crave it. As well, it can also draw up a bit of the anxiety that can follow a roll, especially when you think about it. So I don't think that the sex becomes uninteresting per se, but the frustrations of not being able to roll and experience that unprecedented euphoria for a while again get in the way of enjoying sex in the moment. Sex should be fantastic no matter what your mental state is. If you have a partner you trust and with whom you can really establish that mental connection for losing inhibitions and making each other feel good, that is powerful enough right there to create amazing sex. Our bodies are made to be able to be driven wild through sex without any drugs. I think it's more just not wanting to have sex because you know it's going to remind you of what you cannot have right then and there as well.

 

[augustaB]

To be honest after rolling with my partner and having intense sex/love for hours on end, the main thing we're interested in the following day is to get back to normal.
Yes we are cuddly still but that's about it.
For the next month thereafter my libido is pretty much non-existent. Hoorah!
We might than have sex again by chance but we will be pretty much out of practice.
Sometimes as much as half a year can go by before we have sex together again.

 

[Crashing]

When you take an entheogen, especially an entactogen like 4-FA, MDMA, or Mephedrone, large reserves of neurons are displaced with the drug, which after wearing away leaves a void that takes time to reorganize. It is not until these reserves are completely replenished that the user will feel 'back to normal'. Some of the reserves can be responsible for hunger, sex drive, orgasmic reward, sleep, and basically any function.

If you have Sex on MDMA, I view it as doubling the displacement of neurons for that portion of the brain. Since MDMA already displaced a large portion of the orgasm signals jsut to produce the euhoric high, orgasming on top of this is even further displacing that bank! So once you come down, the system that fires signals for sex drive and orgasm is extremely depleted.

The sex on MDMA just displaced all the neurotransmitters involved in sexual drive and it takes a long while for the bank to get refunded.

Understand, It's not permanent. But the more times you indulge in any activity that stresses this functional system, the longer it will take to recover.

A quick way to rebuild it is by masturbating to point of climax but not actually orgasming. This is an age old technique previously outlined by the pioneers of occultism and sexual magick.