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Littleoldme

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I'm no anal Virgin and to be honest I've taken in a few times with a few people and even have a butt plug or two but the problem is my OH wants to fucked me anally and obviously he wants to leave his Cum in my ass but the problem is no matter what I do I am far too tight I can't take my OH and he's not the biggest I've been with help?
 
Too tight is not the correct term. You are too uptight. Before you take offense to that, hear me out.

The sphincter is quite flexible. At several points in your life you have very liked expelled feces much larger in diameter than any cock and some of these anal enthusiasts out there can shove all four fingers in there. Part of receiving and enjoying anal is you need to relax, and you should also be highly aroused. This loosens things up and gets you actually wanting a massive cock just plowing your ass. It's such an awesome feeling.

You can try doing some solo anal. You know how to push your buttons best. Buy an arrangement of dildos of varied sizes and take them to the tub with you. One of them should be at least as big as your OH. Do what you do to start working towards an orgasm and try to get into the mindset that you would like to have your ass fucked by those toys.

After some trial and error, and some patience on his part, he should be plowing away at your ass and feeding cum in no time.
 
I agree with the above statement.
You need to relax.
My SO knows when I'm not relaxed...
 
Also when my SO cums in my ass....all day some will keep leaking out.
TMI but it's true...totally worth it though, it's hot!
 
Tell him to push harder. (after warming up and using enough lube)

First time I fucked my girlfriend in the ass, it just kept sliding all over the place because I thought it'd take as much pressure as regular sex.. Once you get past the head, it's smooth sailing, but that first inch or two can take some determination if it's a tight fit.
 
Silicone lube (for example, Astroglide X) like the porn stars lube is a very good thing (even though it's a tad pricier than generic KY jelly), as is inserting a dildo or rubber coated brush handle even before sex to loosen up your anal sphincter. Also, be patient. Go or try to go to the bathroom before sex, and use an enema with tap water (not the saline solution that enemas often come with) several times before sex. Finally, it is normal for anal sex to hurt a little bit at first when your partner first gets his dick in your ass all the way. Make sure he understands he needs to thrust slowly until your sphincter is nice and loose and ready for a hard dick pounding!
 
Thanks for the advice, he tries everyone we have sex he finally managed to fuck my ass only once successfully but now he's got the anal bug haha
 
Start small and work that ass open. Trust me your ass hole will stretch to amazing sizes. It just takes time. Being relaxed and enjoy yourself.
 
With proper breathing. Relaxing and pushing out as he pushes in it should slipin. But get you some toys and lube and start small and work your way up. That amazing hole can stretch to fit anything. It is an amazing experience work uptoit
 
Practice makes perfect.
Buy yourself a Doc Johnson 12" double dong (do not buy the jelly version just plain pink rubber).
Practice inserting it.
When you push it in, pretend you are pooping it out.
Pooping out will relax your anus allowing the dildo to go in.
Use a better lube than KY.
A silicone lube is warm to the touch and dries only slowly.
 
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