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I want to beat the crap out of everyone she hooked up with before me.

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DeadElvis666

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The title says it all. I don't have a problem with her ex-boyfriends. But I find myself wanting to fight any guy she had a casual hookup with. Anyone else feel that way?
 
I have very rarely met any of my gf's exs or hook ups. I doubt I'd care for any of them, but I've never once thought getting into a physical altercation with them because we share a similar taste in women would be of an benefit.
Isn't it a little rude to your gf that you're so disapproving of her past sexual choices?
 
DeadElvis666 said:
The title says it all. I don't have a problem with her ex-boyfriends. But I find myself wanting to fight any guy she had a casual hookup with. Anyone else feel that way?
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sounds like you're incredibly insecure/immature if you can't handle the simple idea - that your partner had a past - in an adult manner.

alasdair
 
Well... like last night we went to our dealers house. Our dealer is a girl who I've been friends with for like 8 years. She used to date one of my best friends. My dealer is close friends with a group of guys who I really despise. They're a group of rich, pretty-boy-douchebags who I've loathed for years and I've nearly gotten into fights with on a few different occasions. They're a pretty detestable group of guys. Words like creep, scumbag and douche come to mind when describing these guys. And, to my chagrin, my girlfriend has hooked up with a bunch of them. I've always hated that crew, long before I met my GF. But it really pisses me off that she's hooked up with most of them. Last night we were sitting at our dealers house getting high and the two of them (my GF and my dealer) sat there for the whole time we were getting high, talking about all these guys who my GF used to fuck. They both know that I hate that crew, and yet they just sat there for like an hour talking on and on about those assholes. I just sat there quietly seething... fantasizing about popping a cap in each one of their crew. Finally, rather than make a scene, I just told them I felt sick and wanted to go home. But it's bullshit. I hate those fucking guys, and it disgusts me that my girl has fucked a bunch of them. And it pisses me off that my dealer knows I hate that crew and yet she still sits there talking about them for the whole time I'm trying to get high. Fucking bullshit. Both girls know I'd love to light up their whole fucking crew, so why the fuck would they sit there rubbing my face in the fact that a bunch of those assholes used to bang my girl? Fuck that. Makes me want to hurt a motherfucker.
 
Although (thanks to my girlfriend) now I know that every one of them has a tiny penis (which is funny, because I always figured those rich douchebag type of guys all have tiny pricks, and ironically it turns out that it's true in this case) and she told me each and every one of them fucks like a 14 year old boy who just got his first piece of ass. So it's nice to know that every time I run into one of those fucking assholes I can revel in the fact that my dick is twice the size of theirs, but that doesn't really take the sting out of the fact that most of them have fucked my girlfriend.
 
It kind of sounds like, and please dont take offense to this, you are all lucky this girl gives you guys the time of day. I am not trying to be mean or something but I could not imagine a female bothering with any of you the way you talk about her. We all have pasts and you must accept that she isnt your property and never will be and as such there will be parts of her past you do not agree with. If it troubles you to be around these people and if it were me, i probably wouldnt have done anything physical but i would have told them off and left. Mainly because you dont talk about people like that and i couldnt put myself in an area of such negativity.

I think if you can accept the fact she is with YOU now and not these other people you can find it a source of pride. If you continue to view the situation like this your inevitable jealousy will break you two apart. I have meet my g/fs ex and as they have common ground i can not produce, a love for video games and computers, she can hang out with him if she wishes because i know shes not stupid and i know she respects herself too much to do anything with anyone else while we are together. Even though we are in a strange period where she is questioning our relationship i know my g/f would never consider another man for the sole fact we are together and we both respect each other. I hope you can come to terms with this and allow the relationship to move forward.
 
The hatred I bear toward their crew goes beyond my relationship with my GF. I've hated these guys for years. I'm cool with most of the guys she's dated or hooked up with, but there's one little crew of guys who are my mortal enemies, and she's hooked up with most of them. And my dealer is part of their little crew. I seriously hate those guys so much, and knowing my girls fucked them makes me want to twist their fucking heads off. If I see their fucking faces one more time there's going to be fucking bloodshed.
 
DeadElvis666 said:
I seriously hate those guys so much, and knowing my girls fucked them makes me want to twist their fucking heads off. If I see their fucking faces one more time there's going to be fucking bloodshed.
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This doesn't sound healthy - to the point that you've got me concerned about your girlfriend's safety.
Do you have any way to seek counselling - either as an individual or a couple?
 
I am a jealous type too but maybe not to that extreme . I just say to myself she wanted me and is with me not them. If you let it eat you up it will.
 
spacejunk said:
This doesn't sound healthy - to the point that you've got me concerned about your girlfriend's safety.
Do you have any way to seek counselling - either as an individual or a couple?
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The only people in any danger are those assholes. Last time I saw them, one of them threatened to kill me. You could imagine how thrilled I was to find out my girlfriend used to fuck the guy who threatened to kill me...
 
Well, i don't know the backstory - but i do know that jealousy + violent rage = domestic abuse in far too many cases.
As folks have said, take stock of what you have, and maybe try and cool it down...
 
Well maybe time to get away from these guys because without being able to control yourself its going to be with you now wether you are with her or not
 
DeadElvis666 said:
Although (thanks to my girlfriend) now I know that every one of them has a tiny penis (which is funny, because I always figured those rich douchebag type of guys all have tiny pricks, and ironically it turns out that it's true in this case) and she told me each and every one of them fucks like a 14 year old boy who just got his first piece of ass. So it's nice to know that every time I run into one of those fucking assholes I can revel in the fact that my dick is twice the size of theirs, but that doesn't really take the sting out of the fact that most of them have fucked my girlfriend.
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Of course she is going to say that, the way you are seething probably means she'll say anything to calm you down. I can almost guarantee that at least one of them has a bigger dick than you and she probably thinks about it from time to time while you have sex.

The only people who have enemies are cartoon characters.
 
zombywoof said:
I am a jealous type too but maybe not to that extreme . I just say to myself she wanted me and is with me not them. If you let it eat you up it will.
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She has told me all about their sad little dicks and how terrible they are in bed. I'm not really jealous in that way. I'm pretty amazing in bed and I have a nice big dick. They are all a bunch of short little guys with tiny dicks, and they like to throw money around to impress girls, but they're the type of douchebags I have always hated, and finding out my girl has fucked a bunch of them makes me feel pretty disgusted. I seriously can't believe she would hook up with that type of douchebag. They are the type of guys who have tribal tattoos, wear "affliction" T-Shirts and those aweful jeans with little sparkly iron crosses on the back pockets. They all drive expensive cars and think they're hot shit. But they're a bunch of little pretty-boy cunts.
 
One Thousand Words said:
Of course she is going to say that, the way you are seething probably means she'll say anything to calm you down. I can almost guarantee that at least one of them has a bigger dick than you and she probably thinks about it from time to time while you have sex.

The only people who have enemies are cartoon characters.
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Nah we're really honest about all that stuff. She made me swear to secrecy before she told me about their small dicks and how shitty they are in bed. If you could see these guys it would make perfect sense. She's hooked up with a few of my homies and I know some of them have big dicks like me. But these rival guys are all about 5'6" tall and they are super into lifting weights and dating 18 year old girls with bleached blonde hair. Jersey shore types... So it makes perfect sense that they all have tiny dicks. They are the type of guys who you can take one look at and know they have 3" dicks. She said one of them had a dick so small it was like the size of her pinky finger. Lol. I believe it. You can usually tell which guys have small dicks because they're total assholes and act like total pricks to everyone. She dated one of my homies who's like 6'6" and she said his dick was even bigger than mine. I'm really not trippin about it. But I love knowing they all have tiny little dicks.
 
I've read and heard from mental health professionals that anger is actually sadness with yourself projected on to others.
Have you considered counseling to help with your troubles?
 
DeadElvis666 said:
Nah we're really honest about all that stuff........But I love knowing they all have tiny little dicks.
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How much do you enjoy talking about other dudes dicks with your girlfriend?

What does it say about you if your girlfriends type is assholes with small dicks?
 
Well, sadness, disgust and anger are all different facets of the same emotion. I'm certainly disgusted that she hooked up with my mortal enemies. But mostly I just want to read their obituaries.
 
That was the exact type of dude she always dated in the past. Muscly little douchebags with tiny dicks... not surprisingly most of those relationships lasted about 2 minutes or less. Which is good in a way because after dating douches like them, she really appreciates being with a real-ass motherfucker like me. We're really happy with each other and our relationship. We are very much in love and honestly our relationship is damn near perfect. She talks about how I'm the best man she's ever known, the best thing that ever happened to her, the best fuck she's ever had, etc. And I know she means it. She's a really honest and badass chick. And we are really happy and in love with each other. But I just hate the fact that those motherfuckers are still out there breathing.
 
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